Bad Sex: How to Make It Better

Surely you have already heard thousands of sex tips, from sexual health topics to the best, kept secrets to be better in bed. However, you should know that not all of them work.  Sometimes the simplest is what produces the best results (orgasms, experiences, etc)

They say that perfection is impossible to achieve.  They say this because we are human and not machines.  So there is always room to grow and continue to improve, especially when it comes to sex.

The cinema has made us believe that, since sex is something natural and instinctive, you don’t need to try very hard to do things right.  However, that is the worst lie they have told us in life.  Clearly, you do not need a mathematical formula to have good sex.  However, by now in the game, you should already know that penetration is only a small part.  Focusing on your own pleasure is a terrible idea and that if you really want to blow a woman’s head, you must stimulate more than her body.

That said, you don’t need to know thousands of tricks and positions, or complicate your life to have great sex.  Actually, there are 6 super simple tips that guarantee that you will have the best sex possible every time. It is about seeing sex as more than a physical act.  Take into account that there are many other ways to get into the mood.

Set a “Date Night”

Sex feels good if you do it right, but it is even better when you are attracted to the other person. Whether you’ve been together for a month, a year, or 20, it’s easy to fall into a rut and boredom, having a date night helps bring romance back and maintain interest, which is essential in order not to become one of those couples who have sex every time the desert freezes over. Your relationship will greatly benefit from a date night away from home (it can be Netflix & Chill, but not always).

Disconnect

You should already know that the phone and technology are distractions, reaching orgasm is not only physical, it is also mental, especially for women, so it is a good idea to silence your phone and keep it in the drawer so that notifications do not take you out of your rhythm and have you thinking about other things.

Focus on the good, not the bad

Your relationship and your sex life are destined to fail if you only focus on the negatives, what you don’t like, and the experts say so. Studies show that enduring couples are the most optimistic and tell each other the most positive comments on a daily basis. An easy way to get started: think of a quirky thing that makes you like and share it with her.

Slow down

No, sex is not a sprint, it is a marathon, slowing down does not mean lowering the intensity, it simply means taking the time to put her in the mood, making sure to stimulate her correctly, and delay the orgasm so that it becomes more intense. Experts say that this technique helps both of you get there and that the whole experience is good, not just the end.

Show her that you appreciate her

When you are having sex with another person, then you should also have their pleasure in mind, show them that you appreciate them with movements, techniques, and games focused on getting the two of you to finish.

Studies say that women lose interest in sex if they feel frustrated or dissatisfied, so putting their pleasure first ensures that you will continue to have a good sex life and that they want to return the favor.

Not everything happens in bed

Sex is more than just the missionary position, watch porn together, try different games, tricks and positions, use toys and act out your fantasies, this is going to help you to express your sexuality more openly and that you are really doing what you are doing.